Id be honest. Id tell her I am there for her and will do anything to help her but that I need to know what the problem is first. Id tell her that her recent behavior is driving a wedge between you and that is something you dont want to happen. Id ask her if she still loves you. Id ask her if she is seeing someone else.

And getting your own shit together is always a good idea. Physical improvement leads to mental and spiritual improvement.

One more thing. No matter how you feel, no recriminations. Dont add fuel to a fire. Take it all in a stoic manner. Be the bigger person. For you if not for her.

Id be honest. Id tell her I am there for her and will do anything to help her but that I need to know what the problem is first. Id tell her that her recent behavior is driving a wedge between you and that is something you dont want to happen. Id ask her if she still loves you. Id ask her if she is seeing someone else.

And getting your own shit together is always a good idea. Physical improvement leads to mental and spiritual improvement.