I see. It sounds like she has emotionally 'checked out'. This may be temporary or permanent. If, as you've mentioned, you both have had a number of family members or loved ones die in a short time, this can mess with a person's sense of security and heirarchy, changing oneself from being 'OK' with normal trials and tribulations into suddenly feeling rudderless in the sea with no clear direction or idea what comes next.

If she has fallen into an apathetic or possibly private hysterical depression, i.e., she has her emotional crying and outbursts away from you when she is out for a walk or alone at home, this may be her way of processing her current unhappy situation.

If so, she may exist in a hollow state of emptiness as a means of coping. Her lack of willingness to communicate any further must be terrible. I feel for you.

Is there a family member or friend you can move in with for a time (paying rent of course) who can give you and your daughter shelter and also emotional support while lessoning your financial demands? Your financial distress is quite debilitating all by itself and must be remedied. You must also seek a trusted person who can allow you to share your worries and be supportive without being judgmental.

Your idea of improving yourself meanwhile, is correct thinking. Weight lifting, especially bench presses and squats has been clinically proven to increase testosterone in males. Lifting weights is more than just obtaining larger muscles. It increases your attractive masculine looks, increases your virility and allows you to see the strong, confident man that is hiding beneath, while actually making you a strong man in reality.

Also, take a good look at yourself. Could a better haircut or grooming method be in order? Can you get some natural sunlight to increase your vitamin D3 (sunbathe without sunscreen) to improve your health and also give your face/body some vivacity and color? You will look and feel better.

I will send prayers your way. I wish I had something more to offer you.

I see. It sounds like she has emotionally 'checked out'. This may be temporary or permanent. If, as you've mentioned, you both have had a number of family members or loved ones die in a short time, this can mess with a person's sense of security and heirarchy, changing oneself from being 'OK' with normal trials and tribulations into suddenly feeling rudderless in the sea with no clear direction or idea what comes next.

If she has fallen into an apathetic or possibly private hysterical depression, i.e., she has her emotional crying and outbursts away from you when she is out for a walk or alone at home, this may be her way of processing her current unhappy situation.

If so, she may exist in a hollow state of emptiness as a means of coping. Her lack of willingness to communicate any further must be terrible. I feel for you.

Is there a family member or friend you can move in with for a time (paying rent of course) who can give you and your daughter shelter and also emotional support while lessoning your financial demands? Your financial distress is quite debilitating all by itself and must be remedied. You must also seek a trusted person who can allow you to share your worries and be supportive without being judgmental.

Your idea of improving yourself meanwhile, is correct thinking. Weight lifting, especially bench presses and squats has been clinically proven to increase testosterone in males. Lifting weights is more than just obtaining larger muslces. It increases your attractive masculine looks, increases your virility and allows you to see the strong, confident man that is hiding beneath, while actually making you a strong man in reality.

Also, take a good look at yourself. Could a better haircut or grooming method be in order? Can you get some natural sunlight to increase your vitamin D3 (sunbathe without sunscreen) to improve your health and also give your face/body some vivacity and color? You will look and feel better.

I will send prayers your way. I wish I had something more to offer you.