This phase will not last forever. At some point 20-yr old will leave home ...They tend to screach a lot before leaving in a huff. Really, there will be more peace then. (personal experience)

Try not to take sides. There are a lot of angry women in your life. Can you get out of the house?

Stay true to your morals. i.e. do not perpetuate lies if you know they are untrue. In the case of the 20-yr old's coloring book - she can have a new one soon. Perhaps burn the spoiled one, so that it can no longer rankle. But really, it does seem rather silly. The two older women ganging up on the youngest is the worst part.

Maybe take the younger one for a walk and have a little peaceful moment in the park - or go and fetch an icecream or something.

If someone is "doing it wrong" say so in a steady voice, and then vacate the war-zone. If the screaching gets too much, go and find something to do. Please stay with us.

This phase will not last forever. At some point 20-yr old will leave home ...They tend to screach a lot before leaving in a huff. Really, there will be more peace then. (personal experience)

Try not to take sides. There are a lot of angry women in your life. Can you get out of the house?

Stay true to your morals. i.e. do not perpetuate lies if you know they are untrue. In the case of the 20-yr old's coloring book - she can have a new one soon. Perhaps burn the spoiled one, so that it can no longer rankle. But really, it does seem rather silly. The two older women ganging up on the youngest is the wort part.

Maybe take the younger one for a walk and have a little peaceful moment in the park - or go and fetch an icecream or something.

If someone is "doing it wrong" say so in a steady voice, and then vacate the war-zone. If the screaching gets too much, go and find something to do. Please stay with us.

This phase will not last forever.

Try not to take sides. there are a lot of angry women in your life. Can you get out of the house?