Well. If you can swing it. I’d suggest first and foremost either reducing the workload or even just try to get a few overlapping days/a week off from both jobs.

Go fishing. Hiking maybe. Do a little camping. Just something to get you out of the current environment and time to collect your thoughts and brainstorm potential solutions. Free of immediate stressors. Ideally that would be done alone. But you seem concerned about your youngest so you could bring her if you believe you can’t trust your wife with her wellbeing. Tell her your meeting with some friends you haven’t seen in a while for a guys weekend to catch up. If you want an excuse for the trip. Though you of course would need another excuse if you bring the daughter along.

From the sounds of it. You are suspecting your marriage is over given how readily your discussing the potential of leaving even though your lack of funds complicates matters. Which I suppose is a step down a Road to a solution. Though I’m not sure it’s one you’d want to travel.

If you want to try salvaging the situation you could try couples therapy. Though I’ve heard it’s a waste just as often as it is a help for a situation.

I’d also advise seeking someone to confide in and get advice from. Whether that be a Pastor, a Therapist, or a Relative outside the immediate family and your mother.

Consider changing work as well. Something less stressful or time consuming perhaps. Allowing you to be present at home and in your family’s life more. I’m not sure of your immediate situation. Though so I’m not immediately sure if it’s possible for you.

If you decide on divorce. I’d advise slowly gathering information favorable to gaining primary custody of the youngest as it seems like she is your main concern. Also get advice from other Divorced men and start putting out feelers for lawyers and getting contact information. Some will at least give out their Business Cards and even some preliminary advice free of charge. Given how many bloody lawyers there are these days. It maybe worth it even if it’s not financially ideal.

I wish I could be more helpful. So much ultimately comes down to you and what you are or aren’t willing to do. I wish you the best man and am praying for you to keep going and fighting. Don’t let the Devil win this one.

Well. If you can swing it. I’d suggest first and foremost either reducing the workload or even just try to get a few overlapping days/a week off from both jobs.

Go fishing. Hiking maybe. Do a little camping. Just something to get you out of the current environment and time to collect your thoughts and brainstorm potential solutions. Free of immediate stressors. Ideally that would be done alone. But you seem concerned about your youngest so you could bring her if you believe you can’t trust your wife with her wellbeing. Tell her your meeting with some d friends you haven’t seen in a while for a guys weekend to catch up. If you want an excuse

From the sounds of it. You are suspecting your marriage is over given how readily your discussing the potential of leaving even though your lack of funds complicates matters. Which I suppose is a step down a Road to a solution. Though I’m not sure it’s one you’d want to travel.

If you want to try salvaging the situation you could try couples therapy. Though I’ve heard it’s a waste just as often as it is a help for a situation.

I’d also advise seeking someone to confide in and get advice from. Whether that be a Pastor, a Therapist, or a Relative outside the immediate family and your mother.

Consider changing work as well. Something less stressful or time consuming perhaps. Allowing you to be present at home and in your family’s life more. I’m not sure of your immediate situation. Though so I’m not immediately sure if it’s possible for you.

If you decide on divorce. I’d advise slowly gathering information favorable to gaining primary custody of the youngest as it seems like she is your main concern. Also get advice from other Divorced men and start putting out feelers for lawyers and getting contact information. Some will at least give out their Business Cards and even some preliminary advice free of charge. Given how many bloody lawyers there are these days. It maybe worth it even if it’s not financially ideal.

I wish I could be more helpful. So much ultimately comes down to you and what you are or aren’t willing to do. I wish you the best man and am praying for you to keep going and fighting. Don’t let the Devil win this one.