Totally wrong. When as men do we start accepting responsibility for ourselves as leaders. I can tell by his posts that he was a weak leader and weak man, and that’s not intended as an insult. I too was a weak leader and a weak man in my marriage and it was heading in this direction before I turned it around through sheer force of will and effort. I took accountability for what I didn’t do that allowed it to get to the point it had. Now 10 years later my marriage is more solid than ever.

Does that negate the failure of his wife? Never. But to say it’s not his fault is a lie that is just intended to make him feel better. Hate this comment all you want but yours is more destructive.

Totally wrong. When as men do we start accepting g responsibility for ourselves as leaders. I can tell by his posts that he was a weak leader and weak man, and that’s not intended as an insult. I too was a weak leader and a weak man in my marriage and it was heading in this direction before I turned it around through sheer force of will and effort. I took accountability for what I didn’t do that allowed it to get to the point it had. Now 10 years later my marriage is more solid than ever.

Does that negate the failure of his wife? Never. It to say it’s not his fault is a lie that is just intended to make him feel better. Hate this comment all you want but yours is more destructive.