Everyone is different. My bff's husband was much older and their relationship lasted longer than mine.

I think a lot of my opinion also has to do with the fact there are children from this relationship, too. These people are someone's mother and father. And if he is a good father, calling him a pedophile in the same sense as someone like Joe Biden (I don't think this guy is taking showers with his daughter), it feels like it diminishes the actual harm caused by a man who abuses someone very young.

Everyone is different. My bff's husband was much older and their relationship lasted longer than mine.