That is conflating 2 very...actually 3 very different situations. And making a false equivocation.

1. Yes, one can come across a mangled person from a car accident and find it off putting
2. at the same time you can have compassion for that person

They AREN'T THE SAME THING

In your logic means seeing and saying a truth negates the possibility of cutting slack or giving compassion. Bullshit. In the army you see all types of grotesque shit and still love your fellow soldier and further, have the honesty to joke about it later among one another (with the injured soldier and buddies).

3. Someone born with a birth defect could be off putting and that person can still be loved by the same person. Hell, the smell of a dirty diaper is off putting - that doesn't mean you don't love your baby.

Stop making this bigger than it is. Stop making it about you. And stop virtue signaling.

That is conflating 2 very...actually 3 very different situations. And making a false equivocation.

1. Yes, one can come across a mangled person from a car accident and find it off putting
2. at the same time you can have compassion for that person

They AREN'T THE SAME THING

3. Someone born with a birth defect could be off putting and that person can still be loved by the same person. Hell, the smell of a dirty diaper is off putting - that doesn't mean you don't love your baby.

Stop making this bigger than it is. Stop making it about you. And stop virtue signaling.