Dear Frens,
thank you so much for all your prayers, best wishes, advice and support. Good things are on the way:
Very early after asking you for support I found a really nice little flat some streets from the home I have to leave soon. It was a bingo, because still very close to my family for who I have to care for. And I also had connections to the real estate manager who was offering the flat (the brother of my deceased uncle is/was manager there!).
But I got a refusal, because of too many on the list. So I contiued looking, with not much outcome, my fears began rising again.
Then last week everything also escalated with the buyer of the house where my flat is in. He is totally convinced that I should already have left weeks ago, because in March he SAID that he will/would buy the house and wants to start refurbishment/rebuilding in September.
He is so stupid he could be a left-wing extremist. He just bought a house and thinks everything will be fine, no protection rules for renters exist and the market would serve his needs to get rid of an unwanted renter. - Sigh -
So they started the work in the neighburing flat with some noise and demonic metal music extra loud (LOL), which didn't bothered me, because it is his right and I expected it. BUT they also placed themselves directly outside my living room window on my garden furniture and started preparing for a big barbecue with a really big modern grill!
So I knew some "fun" was getting started to get me out with bullying. I was really at rock bottom and very sad. Despite many tears I pushed myself believing in help from God and Jesus Christ and also getting angry in the sense of "I will not only survive, but even more wonderful better things will come!!!"
Then suddenly I got a call that somebody has lost interest in the above mentioned ideal flat and that I would be next in line. Additionally I found another flat which would have been fine even being a little bit more far away from a really friendly relaxed woman with whom I had a wonderful hour and chat.
So I started feeling safe and began to relax.
This week still was very rough with many talks, phone calls, appointments etc., also because I started to rearrange the care for my family with the help of a new provider which I found, who probably will offer more hours within a fairer deal.
This would hopefully leave room for me to get a well-paid but flexible part-time job which matches the needs of everybody including me and will give me more financial independance. I already had a nice meeting and talk with a friendly business woman who needs someone with exactly my skills and experience, but offering very flexible hours.
Nevertheless I also contacted a lawyer, because of the legally wrong eviction note, which he confirmed. Due to some special constellations I even could fight for staying two years longer. But in that case I would be living in hell during this time, as the buyer of the house is not a nice and polite guy, but a mean bully. Probably they thought I would be stupid not realising that they want to trick me out.
If that goes well, perhaps I will get some financial compensation for all the unnecessary problems I have with moving out "in time" which I don't need according to the law.
Time will tell and probably it will make everything much rougher, BUT ...
I AM SO FED UP WITH HAVING TO COMPLY, GIVING MY RIGHTS AWAY OR ACCEPTING BULLYING - ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! - F A F O !!!!
So once again A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT, PRAYERS AND ADVICE:
EVERYTHING IS ENFOLDING IN GODS TIME ACCORDING TO HIS WILL - WE ARE SAFE AND LOVED EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!
NEVER DOUBT THAT PRAYERS DON'T WORK OR GOD DOES NOT CARE - HE LOVES US!!!
ALL GLORY TO GOD! And may God bless and protect you and your family in these challenging times.
Dear Frens,
thank you so much for all your prayers, best wishes, advice and support. Good things are on the way:
Very early after asking you for support I found a really nice little flat some streets from the home I have to leave soon. It was a bingo, because still very close to my family for who I have to care for. And I also had connections to the real estate manager who was offering the flat (the brother of my deceased uncle is/was manager there!).
But I got a refusal, because of too many on the list. So I contiued looking, with not much outcome, my fears began rising again.
Then last week everything also escalated with the buyer of the house where my flat is in. He is totally convinced that I should already have left weeks ago, because in March he SAID that he will/would buy the house and wants to start refurbishment/rebuilding in September.
He is so stupid he could be a left-wing extremist. He just bought a house and thinks everything will be fine, no protection rules for renters exist and the market would serve his needs to get rid of an unwanted renter. - Sigh -
So they started the work in the neighburing flat with some noise and demonic metal music extra loud (LOL), which didn't bothered me, because it is his right and I expected it. BUT they also placed themselves directly outside my living room window on my garden furniture and started preparing for a big barbecue with a really big modern grill!
So I knew some "fun" was getting started to get me out with bullying. I was really at rock bottom and very sad. Despite many tears I pushed myself believing in help from God and Jesus Christ and also getting angry in the sense of "I will not only survive, but even more wonderful better things will come!!!"
Then suddenly I got a call that somebody has lost interest in the above mentioned ideal flat and that I would be next in line. Additionally I found another flat which would have been fine even being a little bit more far away from a really friendly relaxed woman with whom I had a wonderful hour and chat.
So I started feeling safe and began to relax.
This week still was very rough with many talks, phone calls, appointments etc., also because I started to rearrange the care for my family with the help of a new provider which I found, who probably will offer more hours within a fairer deal.
This would hopefully leave room for me to get a well-paid but flexible part-time job which matches the needs of everybody including me and will give me more financial independance. I already had a nice meeting and talk with a friendly business woman who needs someone with exactly my skills and experience, but offering very flexible hours.
Nevertheless I also contacted a lawyer, because of the legally wrong eviction note, which he confirmed. Due to some special constellations I even could fight for staying two years longer. But in that case I would be living in hell during this time, as the buyer of the house is not a nice and polite guy, but a mean bully. Probably they thought I would be stupid not realising that they want to trick me out.
If that goes well, perhaps I will get some financial compensation for all the unnecessary problems I have with moving out "in time" which I don't need according to the law.
Time will tell and probably it will make everything much rougher, BUT ...
I AM SO FED UP WITH HAVING TO COMPLY, GIVING MY RIGHTS AWAY OR ACCEPTING BULLYING - ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! - F A F O !!!!
So once again A BIG THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT, PRAYERS AND ADVICE:
EVERYTHING IS ENFOLDING IN GODS TIME ACCORDING TO HIS WILL - WE ARE SAFE AND LOVED EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!
ALL GLORY TO GOD! And may God bless and protect you and your family in these challenging times.