Well, let me tell you something. My mother-in-law, who was of sound mind, was the first to go into a nursing home when she became wheelchair-bound. Her family made this decision. It was actually just as much work for the family as if she'd been at home. If she had to go to the hospital, we had to pay a fee everyday to hold her room. Since it was expensive to do this, we had to go with a truck and clear out her room of all her belongings, then lug it all back when she got out of the hospital. We had to do this a number of times. Since having them do her laundry was another added expense (where most of the time other residents ended up wearing her clothes, as a result) the family had to start doing her laundry. They charged an arm and a leg for Depends, so we ended up buying them ourselves at Sam's Club. We made countless trips back and forth doing this for a couple of years. They chose a nursing home that was central to most of the family, but it wasn't necessarily the closest to anyone.
Really, in the long haul, it would have been easier in many respects to have kept her at home.
Well, let me tell you something. My mother-in-law, who was of sound mind, was the first to go into a nursing home when she became wheelchair-bound. Her family made this decision. It was actually just as much work for the family as if she'd been at home. If she had to go to the hospital, we had to pay a fee everyday to hold her room. Since it was expensive to do this, we had to go with a truck and clear out her room of all her belongings, then lug it all back when she got out of the hospital. We had to do this a number of times. Since having them do her laundry was another added expense (where most of the time other residents ended up wearing her clothes, as a result) the family had to start doing her laundry. They charged an arm and a leg for Depends, so we ended up buying them ourselves at Sam's Club. We made countless trips back and forth doing this for a couple of years. They chose a nursing home that was central to most of the family, but it wasn't necessarily the closest to anyone.
Really, in the long haul, it would have been easier in many respect to have kept her at home.