Let them live there, but they must really help in the home. Laundry, meal planinng, cooking, yard work, put in a garden. There is a great deal they both could do that contributes to the wellbeing of the household. This is up their wheelhouse, learning productive stuff. Can your son do an oil change? Your daughter likes to crochet, she could do family mending. Expand your thinking. Sounds like your daughter wants to be a traditional wife. But she needs the skills to go with it. If they can’t work at home make them volunteer for like the local gleaners organization or another non-profit. Your house, your rules. As for you, red pill them everyday. Teach them to be patriots. Are you a person of faith? Start teaching them what will trully give them the confidence in life.

Let them live there, but they must really help in the home. Laundry, meal planinng, cooking, yard work, put in a garden. There is a great deal they both could do that contributes to the wellbeing of the household. This is up their wheelhouse, learning productive stuff. Can your son do an oil change? Your daughter likes to crochet, she could do family mending. Expand your thinking. Sounds like your daughter wants to be a traditional wife. But she needs the skills to go with it. If they can’t work at home make them volunteer for like the local gleaners organization or another non-profit. Your house, your rules.