Your wife should be on your side if she sees his actions. She might be the first problem. She needs to honor you and be supportive, she took the oath. IF that is too much to ask, you will never get her family to oblige. If your wife does not want your children to have a good life, why are you with this woman? Remember she does carry YOUR last name.
Simple quick answer is to show them how much you are enjoying your freedoms. Once someone becomes jealous, it is hard for them to hold back.
For example a father/children trip to a favorite place (minus the inlaws, and cousins of course). Kind of like candy in the checkout aisle.. Daddy, daddy why do they always get to do stuff? Why cant we? Unfortunately fear and greed play into people's lives more and more these days. Use it to your advantage.
Your wife should be on your side if she sees his actions. She might be the first problem. She needs to honor you and be supportive, she took the oath. IF that is too much to ask, you will never get her family to oblige. If your wife does not want your children to have a good life, why are you with this woman? Remember she does carry YOUR last name.
Simple quick answer is to show them how much you are enjoying your freedoms. Once someone becomes jealous, it is hard for them to hold back.
For example a father/children trip to a favorite place (minus the inlaws, and cousins of course). Kind of like candy in the checkout aisle.. Daddy, daddy why do they always get to do stuff? Why cant we? Unfortunately fear and greed play into people's lives more and more these days. Use it to your advantage.