No, you are right. Its immature fixations like this that undermine the credibility of the entire movement, and make everyone look like navie and even bigoted 7th graders that lack the maturity to let consenting adults do what they want, while giggling anytime someone whispers 'penis'. A lot of people need to grow up and ask themselves if they really believe in individual freedom or not, and ask themselves if they are the oppressive reason that so many are afraid to come out of the closet still.