This stuff is like living in the Matrix. Even if we are 100% right there is 0% chance most people are going to "get on board" with it. IMHO instead the best we can do is subtle red pills over a long period of time.
Ive tried this before with other things, doing a "big reveal" to a close friend. It never went well no matter how much evidence I showed. You simply cant dump a huge amount of research onto someone quickly and expect they are going to get on board right then and there.
my 2 cents
Take the OP pill: Win quietly, bask in the internal feeling of joy, smile to yourself every night when you get in bed
Take the Chad pill: Dab or your family and friends daily until you yourself are fulfilled
Dab? Any excuse is good for me!