This stuff is like living in the Matrix. Even if we are 100% right there is 0% chance most people are going to "get on board" with it. IMHO instead the best we can do is subtle red pills over a long period of time.
Ive tried this before with other things, doing a "big reveal" to a close friend. It never went well no matter how much evidence I showed. You simply cant dump a huge amount of research onto someone quickly and expect they are going to get on board right then and there.
my 2 cents
I've found this to be true and that's why I invest very little time in attempting to red pill people who show no curiosity. It saves you from some aggravation but it can get sort of lonely. I don't like listening to small talk, gossip or, worse yet, the latest anti-Trump crap people have been programmed to believe. I'd rather just be alone.
I can relate. It’s like we have to entertain both sides of the fence just to survive