This stuff is like living in the Matrix. Even if we are 100% right there is 0% chance most people are going to "get on board" with it. IMHO instead the best we can do is subtle red pills over a long period of time.
Ive tried this before with other things, doing a "big reveal" to a close friend. It never went well no matter how much evidence I showed. You simply cant dump a huge amount of research onto someone quickly and expect they are going to get on board right then and there.
my 2 cents
The same sunlight that melts butter also hardens clay. One obsorbs the light, the other gets harder the more you shine. The Truth is like the light. People's hearts are like butter and clay. You have to discern the recipients heart. One will obsorb the Truth and soften, the other will become more closed. Share with the open hearted and they will gratefully thank you.