It's too late for those of us who have been through that gauntlet, we can only hope our children,for those of us that have them, aren't subjected to the same nonsense.
It also makes me sad I have encountered many people in life that have the mentality "well they did it to me so.." and allow themselves to be warped.
This was especially true in the military. Now theres nothing wrong with your superior being a hard-ass but boy, did I encounter some ASS HOLES. "The guy that trained me was a dickhead" to justify themselves being dickheads mentality. Honestly, them being self aware about it is even worse.
It's too late for those of us who have been through that gauntlet, we can only hope our children,for those of us that have them, aren't subjected to the same nonsense.
It also makes me sad I have encountered many people in life that have the mentality "well they did it to me so.." and allow themselves to be warped.
This was especially true in the military. Now theres nothing wrong with your superior being a hard-ass but boy, did I encounter some ASS HOLES. "The guy that trained me was a dickhead" to justify themselves being dickheads mentality. Honestly, them being self aware about it is even worse.