No, I am not a calvinist. I believe in free will. God hardens someone's heart after they have made the decision to reject him, his Son, and his word. God doesn't make anyone hate him, but he does judge them for it. That judgement is hardening their heart (which is what happens that makes people become sodomites, see Romans chapter 1) and the punishment for all people who don't believe on Jesus Christ for salvation is hell. God wants everyone to be saved, but the people who make the conscious decision to reject it can be given over to a reprobate mind.
No, I am not a calvinist. I believe in free will. God hardens someone's heart after they have made the decision to reject him, his Son, and his word. God doesn't make anyone hate him, but he does judge them for it. That judgement is hardening their heart (which is what happens that makes people become sodomites, see Romans chapter 1) and the punishment for all people who don't believe on Jesus Christ for salvation is hell. God wants everyone to be saved, but the people who make the conscious decision to reject it can be given over to a reprobate mind.