Tomorrow is strike 3 for me. First was the 6th, then 20th, and now the 30th I know not to datefag but my mental health has taken a toll, feels like freedom was taken from the world. My wife is having our second child in two weeks time. My 5 year old is noticing me on here way too much. I need to get emotionally back on track. If nothing happenes tomorrow. Thanks for being the best group of people in this world
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this^^^ is sage advice, lol. though my experience with having a second child is a little different. 1 kid is one. it's a big change but you still have some wiggle room. 2 kids and you might as well have 6. all ur wiggle room r now belongz to baybeez. if you're like me and have a tough time releasing your former sense of personal freedom and autonomy (or the longing for it, rather) it will be difficult. i am in awe of how fucking much i love my kids, but i'm not gonna lie i need a break from them pretty pretty prettaaaay bad after being on lockdown for a year here in Michigan. wife and i are 2 and through. we have fam/friends with 3+ and neither one of us can understand HOW. lol. anyway all the very BEST to you and your family, OP! we'll be here when you're ready to return!