Being someone who for most of my childhood I was sexually abused/molested it is really infuriating when people use it as a "look at me badge" you don't want to talk about that shit, you just want to move on with your life. Ive seen people who have said "well you only can speak on this topic if youve been sexually abused" and then when you do speak but your opinion doesn't match theirs your told you don't have a voice anymore. It is disgusting.