You are welcome! When your mom's a narcissist, you're going to have mommy issues. I don't know your husband's story, nor should I -- it just seems that starting with a good Christian based male counselor, the focus will be more on understanding where his duty to his mother ends.
If she's really out there, you might read up on whether she might be a borderline. Thats especially difficult to deal with -- the victim stance raises flags -- but in the end, it comes down to gracefully & effectively communicating how much $hit you're willing to accept. (Truly an art)
You are welcome! When your mom's a narcissist, you're going to have mommy issues. I don't know your husband's story, nor should I -- it just seems that starting with a good Christian based male counselor, the focus will be more on understanding where his duty to his mother ends.
If she's really out there, you might read up on whether she might be a borderline. Thats especially difficult to deal with -- the victim stance raises flags -- but in the end, it comes down to gracefully & effectively communicating how much $hit you're willing to accept. (Truly an art)