Hope is never something to feel silly for. I feel so much empathy for you and your husband and both your struggles. But you haven’t given up and you have hope- never feel silly for that. My situation is more of me and my body rejecting it - I gave up and I commend you for not.

But in the end, my heart hurts for you and your husband bc you clearly know what your dealing with and are being proactive. Nonetheless it’s inspiring and something I admire,

I really think something weird is going on because I know way to many ppl in the same situation. And then i too, have a close family friend, in his 30’s who was battling testicular cancer- with the same outcome. Idk if all this is just normal irony or if there has been any research or in depth case studies looking into these issues and how they might correlate to one another regarding demographics and such.