Just a word of caution. Try not to look at a girlfriend or dating as a substitute or as something that will make it any easier to deal with the problem. I don't think you meant it the way I read it but also - don't "try" to get a girlfriend.
Kudos for recognizing the damage and seeking advice. You're already headed in the right direction.
You heard from Crowder too that he and his wife waited for marriage. commendable.
Ultimately don't lean on your own power and strength to overcome something that has you in bondage. We are all weak to the flesh. And we are all subject to the bondage of sin. Recognizing that we are all weak, then you can start leaning on God.
As some others have suggested, I absolutely join them in advising that you partner with Jesus.
Just a word of caution. Try not to look at a girlfriend or dating as a substitute or as something that will make it any easier to deal with the problem. I don't think you meant it the way I read it but also - don't "try" to get a girlfriend.
Kudos for recognizing the damage and seeking advice. You're already headed in the right direction.
You heard from Crowder too that he and his wife waited for marriage. commendable.
Ultimately don't lean on your own power and strength to overcome something that has you in bondage. We are all weak to the flesh. And we are all subject to the bondage of sin. Recognizing that we are all weak, then you can start leaning on God.
As some others have suggested, I absolutely join them in advising that you partner with Jesus.