Homosexuality actually is a choice, by the way. (Former homo here).
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Lesbian here! I adore men, but I really with I can make myself date one. I was in one violent relationship once in my life and couldn't do it anymore. It's been over 10 years, and men scare me. From what men my sister's ever to with, they're sure to either be violent, porn addicted, lazy and just needing a mom while playing DOTA games. My little sisters bf has never worked to support her and her 3 kids in the 12 years she has been with him. My other sisters bf just stares at a computer all day and makes barely any money and doesn't watch the kids. He also constantly makes her feel bad and herself... I see that and feel relieved to be alone. Another part of it is my extremely low self esteem and believing that any good guy will never have anything to do with me and shouldn't.
I've dated women, but because of the toxic community I gave up on dating and work on being happy alone. I'm know 35 and don't drink, don't smoke and not overweight, but I have no idea how to get our of my situation. I have taken therapy and it has helped a lot though. Yes, I do like talking to men, their fashion and seeing manly men on videos, and I can be friends with them but my body refuses to be close out of extreme anxiety. fml
"All men are the same" -said the woman that always chooses the worse kind of guys, just cause "he hawt!" or "he a hawt bad boi!"
Stop choosing bad guys, it ain't that difficult.
But all men are bad!!!!
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It sounds like you have a good understanding of yourself and your situation. So you are already a good distance toward a solution. I am a man but I have seen how sexual misuse hurts a woman in ways maybe she herself is not aware. Yes, my experience confirms they have trouble relating to men after.
That was actually really brave to admit and I hope you keep on with the therapy and get where you want to be by the end of it. Don’t get discouraged... there is a piece of baggage everyone has to carry around with them. Decide if it will be a weight to you or if it will make you stronger in spite of it. All of this is said with true sincerity and I hope the absolute best for you! Being able to see it and discuss it is already a big accomplishment
It's a commonality in any relationship. You run into people w personality disorders....its equal chances w men or women. The last time I was in a relationship granted I was too distracted working full time homeschooling my son and providing care to my dying dad to see he was a spoiled man child w a horrible drinking problem. That was a wasted 3 years and 8 years since. At my age I think I'm going to just stay single...no drama no I'll will..just gets lonely.
Maybe a good man would fix that. But if she rejects men as a group, that includes the good ones with the bad ones. Vicious circle.
Hell, forget romance. I bet she doesn't even have any male friends. Am I right?
...oh where are they hiding?
Where have all the cowboys gone?
But not straight male friends. Makes sense.
She's probably friends with gay men the same reason straight women sometimes like gay men. They're not a "threat."