I have stopped giving my children routine vaccines, and as a rule thinks it's silly to vaccinate for something with such low risk. That said, while I think vaccines are problematic, I'm not convinced they're sinister. Plenty of people get vaccines with no ill effect. I know mom friends who are forced by ex-husbands to vaccinate their kids, and they help them detox (activated charcoal) and support their immunity as much as possible. While I won't choose the vaccine, if I had to then I would research the best way to stay healthy after. I do have a number of close friends and family, including nurses, who have had it. The worst I've heard about is super-sore arms and legs, and one fever. I disagree with them that it's better than Covid but...it's done.

Pray about it, though. Talk to your wife about it. I would be willing to pinch pennies, downsize, relocate, for my husband's health if we decided we aren't comfortable with the risk.