Sounds like you want to be a doormat. Aside from grandma who doesn't really care about anything but your well-being and will bake you an apple pie whether you are pro or anti vax, you should absolutely cut these people out of your life. This is a golden opportunity to weed out all the trash and fakery from your life and seek authenticity. These brainwashed "friends" and "family" or yours have no qualms about shitting on you for your beliefs, and they are doing it off of some headlines they read on CNN and MSNBC. You mean so little to them that they didn't even bother to look into anything before making this decision, because it's really not about any of the issues or any fundamental stance for them; it's about how you and your beliefs embarass them in the public eye. LOL That's it. That's how pea-brained and superficial they really are.

When the Great Awakening comes, you think they will come to you and respect you because you knew and tried to warn them, but they won't; they'll despise you and you'll just be there like an idiot with open arms. They'll just go on with a few reflective words, followed up with inspirational quotes and virtue signaling all over Twitter and Instagram ad nauseam.

You should tell them to fuck off, making it really difficult for them to reconcile (if you even want to). Then you know whom to keep in your life if and when the time comes; the rest will just be a liability to you.