I have been planning on moving out of this cesspool for a while, i am in the process of buying some property in southern Oregon but now I think that is a mistake as well. This Friday, my county goes into “high risk level”... AGAIN! these fuck heads are never going to let this shit go away! So many cucks here that feel “safe” for having the gubment tell them what to do and how to live there lives! I cant stand it! The county I am buying property in is also going to high risk level. So I am not sure they are as based as I thought even though its a red county.
I lost my job at the end of January because I kept asking too many questions about the bullshit china virus shit that they didnt feel I was a good fit for the team. Been on unemployment ever since and my claim just expired. I put in another application and we shall see what happens. I have an interview on the 23rd for an electrical apprenticeship since I don’t enjoy working in healthcare anymore.
My spouse and I don’t really see eye to eye on really anything. My spouse is ultra liberal and I am conservative with libertarian views. I have been thinking of a divorce because we always fight and can never see eye to eye about most things. I just don’t know how to go about a divorce because of my Christian upbringing. I’m honestly nervous about going about it. But I’m not happy in this marriage and I’m not happy where I live. I always have a place to live with family in Idaho where masks don’t mean shit and libtards are few and far between. Not sure what to do. I have been praying about it and asking for your prayers too. Thanks everybody!
You have already gotten all the " fight for you marriage" comments here. So I will say other things. As a Christian who divorced, AFTER having moved out of state, here is what I learned: I wanted my freedom from unhappiness so badly, I quit-claimed my house over to my husband. I knew the kind of environment I wanted to be in, and it was not California. I moved to The Black Hills heaven of South Dakota. I was never, ever going to change my husband's toxic viewpoint on what mattered to me. Did I condemn him or fail to forgive? No. Did I realize I needed forgiveness too? Yes. I did, and do, pray his life would bring him happiness and what he needed. Please protect yourself by being the one who files for legal separation first. Don't get filed against. You can get papers to fill out yourself for your state, and file the document, notarized if necessary. You need this while waiting for divorce to be final if you decide to file, or let your wife file for divorce. A paralegal can do divorce papers "do it yourself" (sort of) but a paralegal is still going to cost maybe 750. But they take papers to court for you. I never had to go do it. Easier for you if your wife files and you pay half. Can you apprentice in your new state? Best of luck doing so. I was in healthcare for 22 years. I left it and praise God I made that decision.
That is a good perspective, thank you for your honest input fren!