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Dear Magistra,
It’s easier to replace behavior than delete it. All that happens when you focus on what NOT to do is it settles in your mind as your first response because you’ve given yourself no other choices.
The “Enemy” is not bigger than you are. Your imagination made him/it bigger.
Now use your imagination to think of better topics for conversation with your husband. Definitely don’t keep silent. When you do that, you end up manufacturing inner volcanoes on forbidden topics that explode into annoyance and arguments.
Start noticing tension building inside you. Tension generally comes from fear. Maybe your husband would be more willing to listen to you talk about feeling tense or being afraid instead of the random rants on masks and shots you’re doing now. Maybe asking him questions on this—and other topics you both care about—and then listening to his answers would help.
I don’t know anything about you and your husband, but I do know that if you’re talking more than you’re listening, it’s time to redirect you attention away from yourself and explore ways to have more fun together.
You start. Let him be curious.
And trust me. I know what I’m talking about.
My husband and I will celebrate our 50th wedding anniversary on July 10th. We can hardly wait!
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~F
I don't have a quick answer, but I do know that the most difficult trials you face happen in the walls of your own home.
Divorce!
Try this one
In the name of the Lord Jesus Christ of Nazareth, by the power of his cross, his blood and his resurrection, I take authority over all curses, hexes, spells, voodoo practices, witchcraft assignments, satanic rituals, incantations and evil wishes that have been sent my way, or have passed down the generational bloodline. I break their influence over my life by the power of the risen Lord Jesus Christ, and I command these curses to go back to where they came from and be replaced with a blessing.
? amen
Stay strong. The last stronghold we have as human beings is the connection we have to family and our loved ones. If there is anywhere to bite your tongue and break Bread of Peace it is here.