If you leave, take the child with you and immediately file a temporary primary custody request through your attorney (the same day, if possible). This will put you in a MUCH stronger position when the custody issue goes before the court in the future. Its hard to argue that you are the better primary custodial parent if you choose to leave the child in her care instead of your own,
I actually did exactly this the first time around and she went full force playing the victim, everyone believed her, because there's no way a big guy like me can be abused by a little woman. She got the worst shark lawyer she could find and got the district attorney to back her somehow, they sent cops everyday to my house to intimidate me, I just gave up because I knew this would never work in my favor being how corrupt they all were.
If you leave, take the child with you and immediately file a temporary primary custody request through your attorney (the same day, if possible). This will put you in a MUCH stronger position when the custody issue goes before the court in the future. Its hard to argue that you are the better primary custodial parent if you choose to leave the child in her care instead of your own,
I actually did exactly this the first time around and she went full force playing the victim, everyone believed her, because there's no way a big guy like me can be abused by a little woman. She got the worst shark lawyer she could find and got the district attorney to back her somehow, they sent cops everyday to my house to intimidate me, I just gave up because I knew this would never work in my favor being how corrupt they all were.