Hey Everyone.
So I've started dating this girl for quite some time and we are getting serious about having kids in the next years. Only problem is that she is determined to get the meme vaccine. (she's not awake yet). I've wanted kids all my life and will have to break up with her if she turns out to be infertile due to vaxx side effects.
What line of logic can I use on her to pull her towards the light? She's really smart but too stubborn.
I don't know what to tell you about this specific scenario. Do you see eye to eye on most things? Do you value the same ideas and character traits? What we have right now about the vaccine (both positive and negative) is speculation. Maybe it will leave people infertile. Maybe we're overly worried, in the same way that the Covid-fear crowd has been overly worried about Covid toes.
I'd be more concerned about whether you intend to parent the same way, and instill the same values, than whether or not she takes a vaccine. She could be infertile anyway, due to health issues or an accident. So could you. Would that be a deal-breaker? I think there's a lot to think through. Be careful, though, not to try to punish or manipulate her for having a different point of view.