I can relate. I consider myself "fluffy" (warm and cuddly), but if need by, I can turn to fat (mean and nasty) in a nanosecond without skipping a beat. I have been blessed with the abilities of quick wit, humor and being able to project my voice across a crowded room without raising the volume of my voice! I grew up in SO CAL where everyone seemed to be tall blonde with blue eyes. I, on the other hand was short, brunette and dark brown eyes. I say, rock on, sister! Live your best life. I have found, the more you enjoy your life while speaking the truth, the more the crackpots hate it and go crazy. LOL