Wow, those are some serious concerns that his CO should really not have been pushing the vax over! Thanks for the information. It’s just so hard to find any non-propaganda stuff about the vax reactions, but that’s good information to store away in case I can find a way to bring it up. At least mentioning that others have heard that the worst reactions are from people with lung and heart issues. Thankfully my husband is not going to rush to get the vax and I’ve been trying to insist that we don’t know what kind of long-term issues there could be, so I’m just hoping if I can convince him to wait long enough, maybe things will get bad enough he’ll reconsider (not that I want things to get bad... but I think you know what I mean). He has completely bought into the covid crap hook, line, and sinker, and the two biggest fights of our marriage (and we’ve only been married less than 3 years!) have been about the pandemic and my differing views and how I think we should question the narrative. He thinks he is “high risk” for covid and the only way he will be “safe” is if he gets the vaccine... and only then can we try for a family (he won’t even kiss me, hasn’t for the last year, because he might “get sick,” that’s how terrified he is of everything). He has made it clear he will not pressure me into a vax at any point, which is good... but we are relatively newly married and I want to start a family and I’m terrified of the consequences of him getting the vaccine. And yes, I’ve been asking him again what his life insurance policy is and started the process of getting wills made up. Worst case scenario. Sigh. Thanks again for your response.