Allow me to say, as one who was paddled in school multiple times (deserved it), this is an effective measure, properly applied. I am not advocating abuse, and I understand the line of separation is not wide. Probably would get a few more at home once the folks found out. Some will say this is not necessary, but my experience is that children are compelled to push limits as far as they can. They need to learn that there is a limit that they may not pass. There is a supreme authority, and it is not them. Capital punishment should be rare, not usually needed after the first couple of applications. The child quickly learns that you mean business. Just my 2 cents.
You Cupcakes have a hard time distinguishing discipline and abuse!
Spanking a child is not abuse, in fact the opposite is true.It's the non discipline that is abuse.
Time Out does NOT work!
You take away "one favorite toy" and think you have taught them a lesson when they simply turn to toy number 2 or their phone or their video games or their tv etc and simply wait you out.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you got this all screwed up and are a huge part of what is so wrong with young people today.
I'll pray for you!
What exactly do you think it means in the Bible scripture of "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him."??????
You are entitled to your own idea of how to raise your children, as for me, I'm sticking with God's instructions.
A swat on the butt is hardly abuse, and it doesn't cause any permanent injuries.
You are simply quoting the liberal handbook. Did you read that in "It takes a Village"?
Back when I was growing up, there were no "privileges" to be taken away. Parents are giving children too much.
All of the hundreds of people I attended school with were paddled at one time or another. Almost all of them that I still know have turned out great. One who got a lot of paddling is now a preacher, another is a deacon, and others had military careers or started successful businesses.
Paddling gets a child's attention. All other "punishments" given by liberals are useless.
Learn the difference between a spank on the rear and real child abuse.
Allow me to say, as one who was paddled in school multiple times (deserved it), this is an effective measure, properly applied. I am not advocating abuse, and I understand the line of separation is not wide. Probably would get a few more at home once the folks found out. Some will say this is not necessary, but my experience is that children are compelled to push limits as far as they can. They need to learn that there is a limit that they may not pass. There is a supreme authority, and it is not them. Capital punishment should be rare, not usually needed after the first couple of applications. The child quickly learns that you mean business. Just my 2 cents.
You Cupcakes have a hard time distinguishing discipline and abuse! Spanking a child is not abuse, in fact the opposite is true.It's the non discipline that is abuse. Time Out does NOT work! You take away "one favorite toy" and think you have taught them a lesson when they simply turn to toy number 2 or their phone or their video games or their tv etc and simply wait you out. Sorry to be the bearer of bad news, but you got this all screwed up and are a huge part of what is so wrong with young people today. I'll pray for you!
What exactly do you think it means in the Bible scripture of "Whoever spares the rod hates his son, but he who loves him is diligent to discipline him."?????? You are entitled to your own idea of how to raise your children, as for me, I'm sticking with God's instructions. A swat on the butt is hardly abuse, and it doesn't cause any permanent injuries. You are simply quoting the liberal handbook. Did you read that in "It takes a Village"?
Back when I was growing up, there were no "privileges" to be taken away. Parents are giving children too much.
All of the hundreds of people I attended school with were paddled at one time or another. Almost all of them that I still know have turned out great. One who got a lot of paddling is now a preacher, another is a deacon, and others had military careers or started successful businesses.
Paddling gets a child's attention. All other "punishments" given by liberals are useless.
Learn the difference between a spank on the rear and real child abuse.