Blaming Q for not getting you out of this situation means you just turned yourself into a victim. Take responsibility for yourself and make other arrangements. It's all about how you view the situation. If you take responsibility for yourself and focus on what you CAN do, you may be surprised at how well things work out for you. If you continue to buy into your reasons for thinking you can't make other arrangements, then by your own thinking and inaction you leave yourself stuck where you are.