It is. But you accomplish it by building yourself and your self-confidence. Focusing on finding someone is focusing on the problem. Once I realized this, I went from never dating to having the option of dating about 30% of the single women I met. And I'm tall and okay looking, but I'm also over 40 and a bit overweight. So if I can do it, so can you.

I still don't date much. Most women have never developed themselves beyond being sex objects, unfortunately, and I am too busy being my best to waste time on empty vessels. But there are still amazing women out there, too. Just requires a little patience.