My husband had both his shots this year but, respects my choice as well, not to do so. I put any fears aside with this "shedding" talk and we go on as normal though, I do make sure he is eating more healthy and slipping in advice on supplements as I can and I follow the same for myself. Do not abandon your children or distance yourself from them because of this. Keep your space with them a positive and loving one, always! Please keep a close eye on their health incase of reactions.