Homosexuality is a behavior so just stop the behavior and you won't suffer the negative consequences of being isolated. It is not your cross to bear because you have no self control over your sexual urges it is not normal it never will be and you need to join the other 99% of us.
I apologize if I came across as completely judgmental and cold to anyone's struggle but we all struggle with sin in it's various forms. I have struggled with substance abuse and anger issues. We all have our vices and behaviors that are not acceptable to the Lord however through Jesus Christ we are all saved and washed clean it's just about accepting the life and living in sin or being remorseful and repentant and trying to do better. Love the sinner, hate the sin is the motto it's just a fine line to walk. I just get really amped up when people try to paint homosexuality and transgenderism as a lifestyle and identity rather than a destructive behavior.
You're totally fine, thanks for responding. I've been thinking and praying hard about this. Lusting after someone is a sin for all people, gay or straight. And it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 that love does not envy, and is not self-seeking. So perhaps wanting to be with someone is self-seeking, and not pure love; which would mean loving someone without wanting anything in return, including sex or even to be loved in return. But it seems that these rules would apply to straight relationships too. So do we need to go back to having arranged marriages and no divorce to be right in the eyes of God?
No part of me has any interest in women romantically or sexually. So do I need to be alone for the rest of my life? Is it fine to have a "boyfriend" as long as we don't sleep together? Is it wrong to lust after your own wife? Is sex for any reason other than the sole purpose of making babies automatically wrong?
The system isn't against us, reality is. What sucks about being gay is that 99% of the world is straight. Lonely but it's not anybody's fault.
Homosexuality is a behavior so just stop the behavior and you won't suffer the negative consequences of being isolated. It is not your cross to bear because you have no self control over your sexual urges it is not normal it never will be and you need to join the other 99% of us.
u/keepwatukill I really wanna know what you think about my other reply. From one christian to another, I need to get to the bottom of this.
I apologize if I came across as completely judgmental and cold to anyone's struggle but we all struggle with sin in it's various forms. I have struggled with substance abuse and anger issues. We all have our vices and behaviors that are not acceptable to the Lord however through Jesus Christ we are all saved and washed clean it's just about accepting the life and living in sin or being remorseful and repentant and trying to do better. Love the sinner, hate the sin is the motto it's just a fine line to walk. I just get really amped up when people try to paint homosexuality and transgenderism as a lifestyle and identity rather than a destructive behavior.
You're totally fine, thanks for responding. I've been thinking and praying hard about this. Lusting after someone is a sin for all people, gay or straight. And it says in 1 Corinthians 13:4-5 that love does not envy, and is not self-seeking. So perhaps wanting to be with someone is self-seeking, and not pure love; which would mean loving someone without wanting anything in return, including sex or even to be loved in return. But it seems that these rules would apply to straight relationships too. So do we need to go back to having arranged marriages and no divorce to be right in the eyes of God?
No part of me has any interest in women romantically or sexually. So do I need to be alone for the rest of my life? Is it fine to have a "boyfriend" as long as we don't sleep together? Is it wrong to lust after your own wife? Is sex for any reason other than the sole purpose of making babies automatically wrong?