I’m reminded of a conversation with an old friend a few weeks ago… (next door neighbor when we were kids) she was always a tomboy growing up, preferring to play soldier or cowboys and Indians with all of the neighborhood boys instead of tea parties and doll houses with the neighborhood girls. She did pick up more traditional feminine interests around middle school… She’s now 40 married with 2 kids… she said “thank god we grew up in the 80s cause today they’d be calling me trans and trying to inject me with hormones and who knows how much damage they would have done.”