Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
One of The things that I’ve learned through the 12 steps program are the Serenity prayer:
Maybe you should accept that you can’t change her. My wife is also jabbed, and I’ve come to terms with it. I drip here a few pieces of info everyday, like more than half of health workers aren’t taking it, the protests in France, Italy etc.
These tidbits of info won’t awaken her, but she now has a nagging feelin that there’s more to this “pandemic” than state television is telling her.
Slow and steady wins the race, and I pray every night for both the jabbed and the “pure bloods”.
Yesterday I told her about the trials in the UK and USA where a certain amount of people have been given a placebo instead of the “vaccine”, and that these people will still be given a vaccine passport. We talked a bit about this, and I told her that I wonder if people here in Sweden are also part of these trials, and if some are given placebos? I told here to imagine the outrage if some people in the risk groups are given placebo, and start meeting people, and they get COVID and die?
Small questions to get her to doubt the propaganda, and if Q is right and there is a great awakening, she will be ready for the giant red pill.
You’re wife isn’t ready yet, and your job is to prepare her for the awakening, not necessarily to awaken her all by yourself. Find one piece of easy digestible news that are not covered by MSM every day, you want to prepare her, not scare her away. Small drips, maybe just a 20 second “did you know”,mor my favourite “Do you know what those tinfoil hats are discussing today?”
It’s important to give her the info, she will understand more later.
Thanks for pointing me to the Serenity prayer. I remember hearing it and some people through the course of my life have recited it.
Thanks for sharing and for your encouragement and advice.