Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
Hope this helps:
1 Corinthians 16:13
"Be on the alert, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong."
My wife doesn't want to talk about these things.
That's perfectly okay with me ...
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"Divided you are weak." "Divided you fight each other." ... Q
If I alienate her she's not going to come to me when she has questions and all of our loved ones are going to have questions at some point.
If she's doesn't already come to you for wisdom there are pre-existing problems in the marriage. She obviously is not invested in godly wedlock if she does not see you as the spiritual head of your household. Unfortunately, Q is right, but you don't see that you and your spouse are ALREADY divided. It's vital that she be awakened but first she has to be awakened to biblical marriage precepts.