Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
my approach is about the same. i drop hints, ask questions (VERY gentle questions, ONLY at the right times. you DON'T want to set this woman off lol), answer when she asks...though i'm not sure my answers do much good. the last question she asked was "do you think 'elites' want to kill us off?" yes. "why? how?" blabbering conspiracy nonsense (to her ears). her eyes glaze over and then that conversation is done, my words swallowed in the void. i happen to know several of her friends are waking up (or already awake) and are being far more direct in their speech, which i LOVE. i think they can get her attention in ways i just can't. otherwise i'm trusting God/The Great Awakening Process to undo a lifetime of conditioning that i am ill equipped to do myself.