Hi everyone,
I'm looking for some tips re: how to have a close, connected relationship with my wife who's asleep. We have been drifting further apart since I started waking up since November. Do any of you have a GOOD STRONG CONNNECTED relationship with your spouse who's asleep? Any tips?
I'm not looking for tips on how to wake her up because often my attempts to red-pill has caused even more disconnect. I'm looking for tips for how to have a GOOD STRONG CONNECTED relationship despite the awake vs. asleep difference.
For context of our difference, my wife was double-vaxxed ASAP and disregards my conclusions about anything when people in authoritative positions say otherwise. We're both Christians, but it's different now. I think I was spiritually woken up and I see the world differently. She's asleep and not interested in waking up and I feel like she wants me to fall back asleep in order to connect. Problem is.. I don't want to go back to sleep. Any tips are appreciated!
I'm sorry that your marriage is in such an upside-down state of affairs. Your husband should not be the beta who is always stressed and unable to handle problems. He is your spiritual covering and protector and you are under his authority. I do think, however, that not talking about it is a big problem. If he is in error, then he is not fulfilling his biblical obligations to you as the head of your household. Encourage him to assume the alpha position that God has created for him. Tell him how much you need his guidance and wisdom. Refer him to Ephesians 5 and Timothy 2.