well I've done a bit more than that. I took her in and married her when she new hardly any English. I helped her get her residency, and then citizenship. I gave her a daughter she asked for. I let her illegal brother live with us on and off. Believe me he is one great big fuck up and the elevator doesn't reach the top. But I tolerate it. I've helped her buy our home, and my mother helped me get us the property we are on. I've never hit her, ect ect. Yes I've lost my temper, but that comes with me being so frustrated that she doesn't listen to my advice at all. She'll listen to her uneducated although nice parents in Costa Rica, her illegal brother, her fat slob of a friend who is lazy and yet happens to work with the 'lgbtqia2+p community over anything I have to say. She went as far as saying to me and I quote 'you have white privileged for being born in the USA'..my reply was ' so I guess my white daughter has white privilege for being born here also. So in all honesty you do not know my situation one bit.