They have literally trained not to think, only to feel.

That person believes his two messages are entirely consistent.

People that don't agree with him should be insulted and silenced because they are bad people. To not listen to himself would be akin to violence because he is trying to stop literal Hitlers from killing trans folk etc.

As Dan Bongino says, the fundamental difference between them and us, is that we believe they are people with bad ideas, while they believe that we are bad people with ideas.

So there is no argument we can make. We are just bad for not being in line with their narrative.