This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
The fact that she did it without telling you is a big red flag. What other major life decisions might she decide to make unilaterally and then you're just stuck with the consequences? The fact that she's done it once doesn't bode well for your future and do you want a lifetime of that? How can you ever trust her now?
Exactly, this is like having an abortion without telling your partner. Huge breach of trust
I thought about saying that very thing in my post!
She'd vax the kids with or without your consent.