This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
Yeah just like everyone else is saying, this is a major red flag. It's not specifically the vax, it's the fact that she went behind your back on a serious matter. I'm sure she felt that her hands were tied but people justify a lot of bad things when they think they're hands are tied. It might not be easy but I'd very seriously consider calling it off.