This decision can have such long term ramifications. I don’t mean to sound harsh but this is going to affect me now and I am stunned she did this without even consulting me. She knows how strong I feel about this and we could have talked about this together.
I know why she got the vaccine and I know her hands were tied. She didn’t want to get it and I would have held her hand and went through all lawsuits possible to get justice.
I might not be able to have kids with her.
I'm gonna be blunt, if she didn't talk with you about this, who is gonna be sure she will not do the same for other things in the future? Is your relationship, and I'm only a stranger on a site, but this is what I think.