Bad mom. Yes, I said it. Being a parent is the hardest job I have ever done. Once you become a parent, you are a parent for LIFE. You do not get time off when you are sick, when you are tired, etc, you have to suck it up and do the unpopular thing sometimes, say NO a lot! Research things you do not know, and/or understand, give up things, do things, etc. Being a good/great parent makes you become a better person. You do not tell your children to do one thing, and then do the other. You show by example. That poor baby will have health problems for the rest of his life because of his parents' poor decision.