Well frens, I'm at a loss for words. My father (who is very based and also follows Q) just told me that he is getting the vaccine. My mother has basically given him an ultimatum... Either get the vaccine, or get divorced. Before you all start roasting her, she is immunocompromised and in her 60s. That doesn't justify this path of action, but I figure some added perspective never hurts. She's my mom, and I love her dearly. Right now she wants a separation for her to reassess the relationship, so my dad is moving out for a bit. 32 years of marriage coming down due to propaganda and fear porn. My father is heartbroken, but his love for my mother is greater than all his other convictions. What kills me most is that after talking to her, vaccination is only the starting point. Not the heal all. So my father might get vaccinated and still end up without the love of his life. Truly heartbreaking.
In addition to all this, I also received word from my pregnant and fully vaccinated sister that she has COVID and has been tachycardic for 5 days. I told her to get some Ivermectin but she ignored my text, presumably because "horse drug bad". If this shit ends up killing ANYONE in my family I don't know what I'll do. My family is very, very small... Please send your prayers y'all. We will need them.
Tough spot to be in, that's for sure. Your dad sounds like one of the good guys; however, something you said ("she wants a separation for her to reassess the relationship") makes me wonder if without your knowledge, the marriage might have been troubled for longer than you think, and this is the passive-aggressive way for her to deal with it.
A few facts about life:
People don't listen to facts when feelings are running high.
You can't change anyone.
At root, people are basically emotional and irrational beings; they have to be TAUGHT critical thinking and how to discern truth from lies.
Best of luck, but you're an observer in this family drama. I can say all this because I have the same dynamics going on in my own family, as do most of the people here on GAW.