Plus, when you are attributing the "gossip" to someone else, it allows the person you are talking to freedom from having to think about your feelings. It's you and him on the same side, discussing a third party. When you start off acknowledging your own idea then the interaction is different.
Plus, when you are attributing the "gossip" to someone else, it allows the person you are talking to freedom from having to think about your feelings. It's you and him on the same side, discussing a third party. When you start off acknowledging your own idea then the interaction is different.