My parents almost cut me off a couple months ago for something unrelated to COVID - they're on the same page with me regarding that- but I am the first born son and they got mad when I questioned their decision to give the farmland I grew up on to my younger brother. My mom had a panic attack and they told me to not contact them for awhile... but I sent them some conciliatory words and we don't talk about that but I made it clear I'm hurt by it.
That's mostly venting but it's not just about COVID... sometimes you expect loyalty from your family but you don't really know if it's there until it's tested...
That’s very true. Family values as a whole has been depleting over time even before covid. The virus just ramped it up to the max for some ppl I guess. I honestly feel more grateful and appreciative of ppl though since covid so it’s not all bad I guess
My parents almost cut me off a couple months ago for something unrelated to COVID - they're on the same page with me regarding that- but I am the first born son and they got mad when I questioned their decision to give the farmland I grew up on to my younger brother. My mom had a panic attack and they told me to not contact them for awhile... but I sent them some conciliatory words and we don't talk about that but I made it clear I'm hurt by it.
That's mostly venting but it's not just about COVID... sometimes you expect loyalty from your family but you don't really know if it's there until it's tested...
That’s very true. Family values as a whole has been depleting over time even before covid. The virus just ramped it up to the max for some ppl I guess. I honestly feel more grateful and appreciative of ppl though since covid so it’s not all bad I guess
Did they ever tell you their reasoning for their decision? Maybe ask some questions on that, perhaps you can convince them to change their minds.